When you get into the psyche of a high-achiever, you realize there’s usually a sensation problem. Something has disconnected, usually as a result of a lifetime of trudging uphill. It's not that we don't feel feelings, it's that many of us have learned to ruthlessly suppress them. We believe that's the deal; brittleness as the "mental toughness" required to succeed. We can be amazed when people don't notice our feelings, though we've internalized that expression is dangerous and constitutes exposure. When you bring intergenerational trauma into the equation, there’s even more to clear out to get to the sensation. Sensation is feeling. You know what requires feeling? Everything good.
High achievers are really, really great at ignoring their own discomfort and intellectualizing the dysfunctional patterns they believe are necessary to survive. They often believe it’s normal and necessary to self-compromise for success. There’s truly little to no awareness of a paradigm where that isn’t true. Not for them. There’s often a willingness to perform a “soft life,” when there’s a prospect of breakdown aka potential lack of success. They’re even willing to go to talk therapy to get names for experiences and, once in a blue moon, microdose real sensation. It’s a band-aid for a deeper problem.
I know because I was this brand of high-achiever for a very long time. When I first encountered hypnotherapy, I was skeptical. I had the same erroneous beliefs most of the population does about control. I was deeply uncomfortable with potentially losing my filter and everything spilling out. I didn’t even know what “everything” was. I thought I did because I had spent years using big words about it and getting validated in that on a weekly basis. If you’re unwilling to fully experience sensation, you probably won’t get far in any therapy. The choice to “feel” is made when you book a hypnotherapy session and commit to showing up.
It felt like a relief to me. There was no pressure to perform like I felt I had to when I was fully in my conscious mind. I would have these moments of not wanting my therapist to worry too much about me, so I would censor myself or go in and find the “right” words.
After my first experience with hypnotherapy, the high-achiever in me that was still being expressed as “control freak” wanted to learn everything about it. (This is also my 5/1 human design profile. If you want a unique solution to a universal problem, I’m designed to provide it.) Hypnotherapy was deeply compelling because it could create these windows of neuroplasticity and mind-body integration in a way you can still detect. Sustained practices like breathwork and meditation do have a measurable long term effect, you just may need a body scan to detect them. (Your friends and family can also ratify your change with all of these methods.)
I created The Neurointuitive Method by using my education and healing experiences that moved me. I changed my world by feeling. There’s no psychedelic needed (I produce the same effect without the possible psychosis). There’s no constant search for validation or the next hit of dopamine, and I say this as someone AuDHD. I no longer have a sensation problem, which truly allows me to experience things beyond my wildest imaginings. My conditioning would have had me believe that it was impossible to truly feel happy most of the time. I would have spent my life within the margins of what generations of others believed to be “realistic.” People who work with me in my larger containers experience this freedom, too. It’s deeply gratifying on a personal level and that gratification is then reflected continuously in the external.
If you want to get in to my world while I support you in creating your own (really your own, not others’ “realistic”), I invite you to explore the product suite. It's chock-full of things I've learned over years of life and professional experience as the only truly global subconscious specialist alive. (All 7 continents, y'all.) I am searching for my people with backbone. I am searching for my people who want to drink the wine and swing on the vines. If you'd like a far more direct experience, you can pitch me for in-depth work using the form at the bottom of this page. I always like to remind you that you are the ultimate power in your life and you can decide on any of these things without my assistance; I offer my assistance as a precision aid. Thanks for reading and I wish you plenty of sensation to come.
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